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The importance of 'Forgiving'

This is special post on the International Day of Forgiving(7th July)

We all are human beings and what makes us humans is the quality of mercy and compassion. This compassion makes all of us able to forgive. 

Forgiveness is one of the most appreciable qualities of human beings. Those who are full of forgiveness to others are known as Saints. Normal people might get angry on those who perform an action that hurts as this causes them go angry. Anger is not at all good. An angry person is most likely to hurt others as well as his own self. But there are many kind of people around us and their behavior is often very annoying to us. So can we escape ourselves from anger? The answer is exactly what I am talking about, “forgiveness”.  

To forgive is to let go something that is otherwise not pleasing or painful to you and allow an excuse to the person who cause you anger or pain.

A famous saying states that “There are two ways to make your life happier; one is to forgive and the other is to be forgiven.” 

Those who are able to forgive eventually lead a better and more peaceful life. Those who know how to forgive are the strongest people as they stand stronger than those who can punish or take a revenge. Of course, forgiving does not change the event or action that has hurt someone in past, however, it certainly helps in healing the pain and making the future better. 

No one of us is free from evils. All of us are likely to commit mistakes though which we intentionally or unintentionally hurt others. If those hurt get angry with you there comes a conflict which again opens the process of hurting each other. But what if the other person forgives you for what you have done? It is soothing and leads to peace for you both. 

So, this 7th July do forgive all those who have ever hurt you and ask those you have ever hurt to forgive you. You will certainly see the magic of more peaceful, more enjoyable and a happier life of yours. 

Keep Forgiving!



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  1. This is a lovely formula to stay happy. Just chill and forgive others for there deeds. :)

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  2. Wow, what a simple mantra for a peaceful life. I definitely need to work on this one.

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  3. I neec to work on this one.Simple mantra for peaceful life.

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  4. As easy it sounds, forgiving is the most difficult task. But once achieved it does make one feel better.

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  5. It is so difficult for me I am not a forgiving person honestly..I simply start drifting away need to change that

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  6. True..forgive and forget. Unfortunately it's not always as easy as it sounds.

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  7. I think is so important in the world today. Forgiving and moving is more beneficial to self than to the person in front of us i think. We hold grudges in our mind alone.

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  8. You are so right, forgiving is actually good for us. holding on to grudges does no good to us, If you forgive and forget then we become lighter

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  9. Realy true..Forgiveness dose not change the past but, it does enlarge the future

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